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And Why AI Will Never Replace Them
In December 1995, a fire destroyed most of Malden Mills, a textile factory in Massachusetts. It was three days before Christmas. Fourteen hundred people were suddenly out of a job, in a town where the mill was the town.
The owner, Aaron Feuerstein, could have taken the insurance money and walked. Textile manufacturing was already fleeing to cheaper labor overseas. Every incentive pointed toward liquidation. Instead, he stood in front of his employees and told them something almost no CEO says anymore: he was rebuilding, and he was keeping them on full pay and benefits while he did it.
It cost him millions. It also bought him something most companies spend fortunes on consultants trying to manufacture and never get: a workforce that would have walked through fire for him, because he’d already shown he’d do the same for them.
That story gets told as a nice piece of corporate folklore. It’s a real business case study. Because underneath it is the whole, uncomfortable truth about employee engagement: it comes down to three things. All three are simple. None of them are easy. And that gap — between simple and easy — is exactly where most companies fail their people.
Engagement isn’t a program. It’s the inevitable outcome of how people are treated when it costs something.
The Three Things (KTB)
Strip away the surveys, the perks, the culture decks with the ping-pong table on the cover, and engagement rests on three pillars.
- Know People need to be seen. Not surveilled. Seen. Known as a whole person with a name, a story, and a reason for being tired on a Tuesday. This costs a manager nothing but attention — which is precisely why it’s so rare. Attention is the one resource everyone claims not to have.
- Trust People need to be trusted. Micromanagement is a tell. It says: I have hired you, and I do not believe you. Trust means giving someone real ownership of an outcome and tolerating the discomfort of not controlling every step to get there. It also means being transparent with how things are going. That is a two way street that starts with the leader.
- Believe People need something to believe in that isn’t just the paycheck. Purpose doesn’t require saving the world. It requires a leader who can explain, honestly, why the work matters, and who believes it enough that the reason survives a bad quarter. A leader who believes in their purpose, their team, and their ability to get to the finish line.
None of this is complicated. A ten-year-old could explain it back to you in a sentence. What makes it hard is that all three require something leaders are trained to avoid: personal exposure. Seeing people means noticing when they’re struggling. Trusting people means risking they’ll fail on your watch. Giving purpose means committing to a reason you’ll have to defend when the numbers get ugly.
Most cultures don’t fail from a lack of ideas. They fail because leadership flinched at the exposure. Because when times got tough they either blamed their people, or planned their own exit.
I was talking to a client the other day who had six managers in one year. SIX. By the time the sixth leader stepped into the role, the team was exhausted from yet another reframing, goal setting, complete overhaul. The team openly asked, “how do we know you won’t be gone in six months when you figure out how difficult this work really is?” It was a valid question. It’s only 3 months in, so the outcome is TBD.
Where AI Fits — and Where It Doesn’t
Every industry conversation right now eventually turns to AI, and the anxious version of that conversation asks whether it’s coming for people’s jobs. That’s the wrong question for a culture-minded leader to be asking.
The better question: what is AI for?
My husband likes to say, when the topic of AI comes up in social circles, “you know it’s just programming right? There is nothing intelligent about it. It’s just a language model.” AI sounds impressive, is impressive when you first use it, but any expert who uses it daily knows exactly the limitations, hallucinations, and problematic logic loops it creates. It usually creates more need for quality checks. It just moves the human job down the line.
The companies that will win the next decade aren’t the ones using AI to shrink their headcount and call it efficiency. They’re the ones using it to strip the friction off the parts of work that were never the point — the scheduling, the status updates, the first-draft memo, the data pull nobody wanted to do at 6 p.m. — so their people have more room to do the parts that were always the point: judgment, relationship, creativity, care.
AI can automate a task. It cannot attend a funeral, coach someone through a divorce, or notice that your best engineer has gone quiet in meetings. Automating the noise is the goal, so a human has the bandwidth to notice the signal. That isn’t a cost-cutting move. It’s a culture strategy.
Replace your people with AI and you’ll get a leaner org chart and a workforce that trusts you exactly as much as you trust them — which is to say, not at all. Use AI to bolster your best asset instead (your people), and you get something a competitor can’t easily copy: humans who feel more capable, not more disposable.
Three Things You Can Do Today – Leader or Not
You don’t need a budget or a task force to start. You need thirty minutes and a willingness to be a little uncomfortable.
- Have one real conversation. Pick one person on your team and ask a question that isn’t about a deliverable. “How are you actually doing?” Then stop talking and let the silence do its work. Seen starts with one conversation, not a policy.
- Hand over one piece of control. Find a decision you’d normally make and give it, fully, to someone else — outcome and all. Resist the urge to correct the first version. Trust that isn’t tested is just a word on a values poster.
- Name the “why” out loud. In your next team meeting, say — specifically, not generically — why the work in front of you matters and who it’s for. If you can’t answer that in one honest sentence, that’s the real problem to solve this week.
If You’re Not the One Leading
None of this requires a title. If you’re not the one running the meeting, you can still practice all three from where you sit. Ask a colleague a real question instead of a status update — you don’t need authority to see someone, only attention. Volunteer to own one small piece of a project start to finish and resist the urge to ask permission at every step — trust is something you can extend to yourself before anyone grants it to you. And when someone asks why a project matters, be the person in the room who answers honestly instead of shrugging, or worse spitting out corporate speak that no one including PR (Public Relations) believes. Culture isn’t handed down from the org chart. It’s built in the hundred small moments between people who are doing the work of building it — and those moments are available to you today, whether or not anyone reports to you.
The Bottom Line
Here’s what’s genuinely maddening about all this: leaders already know it. Nobody reads this and learns something new. What they usually need isn’t more information — it’s a push, a framework, and someone in their corner while they build the muscle to actually do the uncomfortable parts consistently, especially when the quarter gets hard and the instinct is to retreat to control and metrics. It takes a really strong business leader to push back on shareholders and investors when they panic. But one who does, who believes in their people and their purpose, is the only one who truly can build a culture worth promoting.
If you’re a leader who’s tired of culture initiatives that look good on a slide and change nothing in the hallway. Let’s talk. I work with individuals in finding the right cultures, and also teams in building it. Now that’s a purpose I can get behind every day of the week.
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